Hi Hox, think we are both right. He has been living with us some of the time and returning to his partner, mainly at the weekend. He doesn’t seem to go out all night with any mates. Think he probably takes it at her house but not sure if she does as she drops him off early in morning. We haven’t been able to speak to him properly at all. He arranges to have his kids at our house at the weekend but just about turns up sat morning in time for when they arrive. He is usually still hyper but later in day falls asleep. This is not what he should be doing when having his kids. Today he was supposed to be working and coming home to ours for tea and sleeping. No response all day to our calls or texts. He hasn’t been looking after himself and his excema has flared up. Washed all his clothes as they were dirty. No discussion when he came back why has hasn’t spoken to us properly for the last 6 months. Not sure where to go from here with him, if he comes home. His partner has bought a blow up mattress and new bedding for his kids to stay here but supposed to be discussing this tonight with him. She has now gone away until Sunday. Sorry for ranting. Thought he had come home to sort himself out but doesn’t seem like it.
