Ye im really good now thanks.. that regarding were you are out and hes saying hes struggling. 1 its really good hes telling you this. Just tell you be home soon and give him something to do to keep him self busy.. tell him tidy up or something and listen to some music.
When my gf is out i feel the same. I think its because were on our own and bored.
But coke will play so many games with you in trying to make you to buy it. Its like a devil and angel on your shoulder.
Personally i wouldnt drink at all.
And if he is lapsing every 2 or 3 week. He needs be aware of this and plan for it coming and do something to keep him busy.
Im listening to alan charles on podcast niw and ive bought his book.. walking out the other side.. he had a coke addiction for 24 years and is now 11 years clean. Tell him just listen to one or buy his book. And read a bit a day. They really help peoples recovery stories.