Hi thanks for replying! And good on you for trying just keep it up and try not to be too hard on yourself when you lapse just remember why you want to quit and pick yourself back up – I’m sure you’ll get there!
Currently he’s not really actively doing much, personally I think he’s scared of the change I just don’t know..
He doesn’t actually do it with drink – it’s pretty much daily – never used to do it on a Sunday which was the only family day a week… he too can earn decent money he’s self employed though (cash) so I dread to think how much he’s using a day… with his finances getting so bad it must be going on possible 2G a day (or that could be my mind running away with itself)
I’ve actually read quite a lot of you replies to people and you seem to have some great advice which I’ve sent on to him… he’s said he’s going to download the pocket rehab app.. and I signed him up to another forum – passed the login details onto him and just said it’s there if you want, he said he’s looked at it and was going to write on it today… I think he seriously lacks self esteem, seems the typical
Life of the party but it’s a front…
I don’t want to give up on him but how long can I wait…
I think it truly is the last I’ll try to help then I have to move on I have the kids to consider and if they risk losing him they need me 100%…
I’m so scared what might happen to him!
He’s tried appointments at a NHS place but said they’re no good – not sure if this is just him not giving 100%… I think he kind of wants a quick fix or someone to do all the work and him wake up addiction free… I just don’t know what I’m supposed to do…