my bf relapsed last night, after 6 months.. i am so upset, he was doing so well, his ex wife is causing us sh*t again and caused him to get anxiety and go off track, he has a kid with her, who she uses as a weapon all the time. His mental health is so bad today, it completely messes his brain up.
listen Dan honestly, youve been doing good – you arent doing it every night youve been on track, you sound like an amazing Dad and you should be so proud of yourself. She is obviously proud of you and mums judgements are usually right.
its weird you say that, my boyfriend dont wanna tell his mum either.
my boyfriend has a kid with someone else and shes basically making our lives living hell at the moment, shes got bad mental health problems and is forever using the kid as a weapon, this is why he started self medicating anyway cos she ruined his mental health. I worry what will happen to our relationship to be honest.
I am ready for a future with him but shes ruining it shes so insane, shes determined to split us up, shes threatening him saying shes gonna make the kids come and live with him, cos she knows we dont have the set up and life for them to be with us full time, shes a witch.
hes 8 years older than me btw, i just feel like my whole life i have had shit and when something is good or i feel like i am happy something comes ruins it. on top of his ex i have to deal with his relapses, its so hard, i am only young as well im finding it all hard to cope with. god, what do i do.. when you relapse how would you want your GF to act and help you?
i know getting angry dont help. I just find this shit so draining.
thankfully he has his counselling tonight.