To be honest he’s not actually been off it properly, I’m guessing the key is getting them to reach out before they actually take it (ideally before it’s bought) that’s where I’m trying to get him to but he says what the point what can anyone do… that’s where these forums are so helpful, if I can just get him on a forum(which I think I’m close) he’s close to losing everything g me, kids, home, work so it really is last chance for him…
It’s good he has counselling tonight so hopefully that will put him on a good track hopefully (your BF)
I used to get angry every emotion possible but I’ve learnt that deep down it’s jot his fault so tried other approaches such as talking about it being a little compassionate whilst trying to stick to boundaries ( that’s what I find the hardest to juggle)
Do you have boundaries in place? X