40k wow.. i cant stand dangerous women like that.. who use bullshit regarding there kids. Its sick.
Pmsl… eggs are drying up! Hahaha…
Your only 26 i wouldnt worry just yet. Id be more bothered about him being 8 year older. Im 35 now. And id get someone preggers straight away. 3 ive had and they got preggers straight away more or less. Or i was set up lol
Would you not try now though? I would say it would make him better. But thats never the case.. and could you imagine his ex if you had 1??? Bet she would be going mental..
But you are right in away.. because depending how you go with your bf… because if you wait till he fully sorts himself that could be a while.. if he lapses again.. then another setback.
Then if you leave and you have find the right person and then have a kid… the clocks ticking lol only messing.