Well both of you really need want to quit.. if its just you for instance that wants to quit and hes not to sure.. he might able to make you want to get it.. if that makes sence.
If u you want to quit.. u obviously know the trigger is when the kids are away.. so instead of that.. you need to do something totally different . You need to change your routine around.. decorate.. go gym.. cinema.. long walks..
Give some one your car keys when the kids have gone them pick them up the next day.
I feel.guilty about the kids.. but my kids get everything they need.. but i still feel guilty..
I have it on my own or sometimes with others. I cant stand the stuff anymre