Hi Andy T
Thanks for sharing your story. I’m sorry that you are affected by your partner’s drinking. I know this is hard for you especially if she doesn’t feel that she has a problem.
If you would like to talk through what you are experiencing with someone who would understand what you are going through please contact us at The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports people affected by a partner’s addictive behaviours. We have trained and experienced people who would listen and maybe help you find a way forward.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrst.org
I hope this helps.
Good luck.