In realsitic goals i mean as in.. if hes lapsing each week.. for 2 weeks on a calender on each day he needs to write a task he can do to focus on and that be his goal in stead of coke. Say gym 5 days aweek. Walk the dog each day, decorate, save x amount of money to take you somewere nice for standing by him.. any thing really thats going to keep him occupied. Or read a book. Ive took up reading and i never ever read books lol.
He needs to not plan too far ahead. When he wakes up he needs to say to him self. He just needs to stay soba/clean for today and thats it.. just baby steps.
Did you not see it on sky news the other day? How the uk has a big cocaine addiction problem. The numbers were frightning.. but i can go in any pub and everyone is doing it! You would be suprised who is..
My sons friends who have just left school all sell it on snapchat! Pictures of coke and how much.. its crazy! But he doesnt really hang around with them?