Same here. ‘Husband’ said he didn’t love me anymore and he didn’t know why. Told me to get on with my life. It was so sudden it stunned me. He would cry for reasons I couldn’t work out, because why would you cry if you didn’t love or care about someone and what you are doing to them. I wouldn’t but then again I don’t sniff coke.
Fourteen years of marriage to my soul mate and then nothing. It was so out of character but then so was the regular use of cocaine and drinking excessively.
It is the cocaine talking, we cannot all be wrong. It changes everything about them. It also changes the way they treat others that are close too, you just don’t realise because you think its just you.
You are not alone.