My ‘husband’ was the same. Just a social thing once, twice a year max. I’m probably exaggerating at that. I didn’t notice a change in him when he did cocaine infrequently.
Then came the stress of a court case. Upped the drinking and upped the sniffing. Cocaine changed his mind set. He found no pleasure in anything that he once had. I didn’t realise until it was too late. My ‘husband’ now doesn’t love me any more. He doesn’t mix with the folk we used to. He has ruined his successful business with not going regularly and is now detained at HMP.
I am now going to lose the house and everything we have both worked hard for.
If only I had known what I know now.