This forum has been my rock in my deepest, darkest days I can tell you. I didn’t know where to turn.
There is no real emotion in my ‘husband’ like you say they don’t ‘feel’ anymore. It’s like they have become an alien being. No amount of talking helped, he just didn’t register my feelings in all of this, only his own. He became selfish for the first time in our lives together.
It’s not a mid life crisis is it. It’s a ‘cocaine crisis’ and our lives will never be the same again. It has been an awful twelve months.