take a step back and look after yourself, honestly, there is absolutely nothing you can do. You must not ask yourself if youve done enough, youve done plenty considering the way hes been acting.
Were all in a similar situation – when they are on coke they are so awful, it takes away their emotional part, its so horrendous.
unless he wants to stop and give up and REALLY wants to get help, go into rehab etc, it will only get worse and youll get dragged down with him.
If he isnt wanting it and doing nothing, honestly, walk away.. that comes before anything, believe me – nothing you say or do will stop him, the pull is too much.
honestly i have done this ive threatened to leave. ive even left and packed my stuff, nothing at all makes them stop while they are mid addiction.
reading your posts, he doesnt want to stop, deep down he doesnt. Him saying you can help me etc its all just avoid tactics, honestly, been there..
he will need to hit ROCK BOTTOM honestly, as bad as it sounds, this will go on and on until something serious happens and he might wake up he might not, my other half did.. he was suicidal, went missing for days and got found passed out somewhere.. that was turning point for him, even then they relapse
there is no magical cure – they can only help themselves. Thankfully no kids are involved, DO NOT give him money honestly.
i would suggest going onto google and reading through addiction info , they give good advice on how to deal with loving an addict..
its so sad but honestly, the best thing you can do is be realistic and prepare yourself as it wont get better if he dont get help.
you will make yourself ill – i did, i was blaming myself, going over and over things in my head, wondering where it all went wrong.
you need to take care of yourself xxxxxxxxxxxx take some time out, go for walks, go to the gym, remove yourself from this exhausting situation – we all know how you feel so do come on and chat if you need to xxxxxxxxxxxx