Hi IC100
cocaine honestly makes people so selfish, if hes being nasty hes probably on it or on a come down. literally it makes them not care about anything, that comes first.
thats a huge tell tell in my eyes, the personality changes, he will be using.
An addict isnt just someone who takes it daily, if you take cocaine weekly, youre an addict. When it starts affecting your life/relationships its a problem.
i wish i could give you more positive advice but honestly, he will be saying hes stopped using but he wouldnt have. I would purchase some drug tests from amazon – they work and that will give you facts.
if youve taken cocaine say 2 months ago you wouldnt be acting that way, as it would be out your system – when theyre selfish and nasty usually its still in the system.
i even read that if you take cocaine say once a month (and you cant not) and you wanted to give up – youre an addict.. dont be fooled by the whole oh youre only an addict if you do it everyday, thats so not true. My bf is an addict and he went 6 months without it and relapsed
i would suggest you do some research and get clued up on it, google emotional stages of cocaine relapse as all the signs are there.
sorry but it doesnt sound like “social use” to me, the way hes acted and the things hes doing screams addict to me – and theyre brilliant liars, so he will manipulate and lie so you think he isnt.
its horrendous to accept – but honestly i would say you need to do drug tests when taking the children – i wouldnt also want someone to be on it whilst looking after my children.
you can buy them on amazon btw x