Thank you for responding, it sounds like your doing well and are on the right path thats all that matters its baby steps.
He’s spending a lot, as in like hundreds on it and he will also sit on his own and have it once has has it he won’t stop until it’s all gone It doesnt matter if its through the week or weekends. In the past I’ve taken it off him and flushed it away and he’s begged me for ‘1 more go’ before i get rid, it’s horrible to see someone beg for something like that. I don’t know how much he’s having now and how often because he’s no longer living with me. I thought not having him living with me would open his eyes but he’s taken advantage of the situation. I’m scared of bringing this baby up on my own and it’s killing me knowing that’s more than likely going to happen but I can’t have my baby around him when he’s doing it. When he’s on a come down he’s very aggressive and abusive and he’s putting me through hell. He’s constantly lying, trying to manipulate me, avoiding me and turning things round on me. He doesn’t need a drink to have it he would rather be on his own with his sniff and weed but he also priorities his friends who take it as well. I just feel pushed out and left feeling unwanted. I just want him to open his eyes and see how good things can be but he’s constantly making things worse. I’ve tried all sorts of different approaches with him and nothing seems to work. It seems he realises and feels guilty at the time of me talking to him and gives me all empty promises and false hope that things will be good afain then goes straight back to doing it.