Hi Vixem,
Don’t be ashamed. If you have to leave because of this situation it’s him that should be ashamed. You are doing the best you can for your daughter, she has to come first. Are social services involved?
I’m afraid after the events on Sunday, I have advised my son and partner that I will not be taking care of my grandson one day a week, as I am too upset about her spoiling my other son’s party. And I can ill afford a full day unpaid.
Apparently that has caused a massive storm, and he did manage to throw her out one night. Though I’m now feeling as if it’s me who causing trouble! Yes it is trouble, but I have just said I am not enabling the situation to carry on any longer by helping them, as she is not getting the help she is offered. All is quiet today, I do know my son had to take the day off yesterday, but they are keeping me on a need to know basis! And really I am here to support them but I do have another son at home who has just had two years off school due to ill health! So I am pulled in all directions xx