[vixem]

You have to commit yourself to your family and by not enabling her behaviour you are doing that along with caring for your other son. Unfortunately doing the right thing usually hurts. Socially services are not involved I requested a voluntary visit however, again as one fully functioning parent is there, there was nothing they could help with at that time.

I am going to email primary schools near my mum today and have been put on the transfer list at work. So I am slowly seeing a chance to escape. I just dread the debt that will follow as he will loose the house but will build up a massive rent arrears in the process.