I’m really sorry to read what you’ve been through recently because of your husband’s addiction.I’m glad to hear that you have been in touch with the domestic abuse team and that he is not allowed to see you right now. It must be hard that his family are not supporting you but please keep safe for your three children as well as yourself!
You might like to talk with one of our trained and experienced people at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that gives support to people dealing with the addictions of a partner. May be talking would help you to see how to go forward.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrst.org
All the very best and please keep safe.