Reply To: How do I support my husband when he is pushing me away

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rani123
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Don’t bother with him. His happiness isn’t important your happiness is. Let me tell you my husband has had an addiction of marijuana and cocaine for years before I met him. He kept me in the dark for years and everything went unnoticed . I have been with him for 6 years now and Iv tried everything to help him. Paid debts off for him so he stops feeling depressed and turns to drugs and drink. Iv even gave him money when he needed it but he has shown no appreciation. Addicts are very sweet and charming when they need something but when you refuse to help them you will experience physical emotional and mental abuse . I’m still going through it right now as we speak . I’m fed up myself Iv lost all my assets including my home and I’m being made evicted in 3 weeks time and my husband isn’t bothered one bit because he has a home at his parents house . The arguments have been really bad between us and this is now the end of our marriage . I did my best to help me . My advise to you is get out of this relationship as fast as you can before you lose your on insanity with an addict coz that’s what’s happening..

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