It’s got to the point now where nothing surprises me. I’ve known deep down for a while that he won’t change and it will only get worse (which it has) but I’ve been lying to myself hoping things will get better for me and the baby.
The work situation with your husband, my boyfriend used that excuse too when he was working long hours. He will always find a reason or excuse to do what he does. Every Friday he would come in with a few beers and couple of bags and over explain why he’s doing it.
Now he’s not living with me he’s doing it even more and he will deny it the next day saying I’m being paranoid and that he’s not touched anything, getting into my head and making me second guess myself all the time. That’s where I’ve gone wrong in the past as well thinking it must be me imagining it or maybe I have over reacted and what if what he’s saying is the truth when in fact the majority of the time I was right and It all comes out in the end.