Hi, I’m the same situation. I’ve been cheated on with different women and given the same excuse that cokes makes you do it because it makes you feel good and horney.
We all want the man back we lived but the truth is we won’t get them back, they’re gone and In too deep. The only way out is professional help and lots of counselling and most people that beat the addiction have to give up alcohol too asvthats a trigger and cut their friends out their lives. Even then couples therapy would have to be done given the damage that they have already caused. Too much damage has been caused to me and my children by my ex and his coke addiction, we are still going through a hard time with him even although we’ve split. Only you know whether to give him a chance but my advice would be to run like hell because you will only endure more heartache and you need to look after yourself x