Remember they lie and manipulate to get what they want.
In my opinion. When you got in touch and agreed to meet up he thought he’d got his meal ticket back. Then when you realised you weren’t ready, even though it’s his fault that you are not together, he told you a classic line for cocaine addicts. ‘I don’t want to be with you, you need to move on’
You haven’t hurt him through this, he has hurt you. He will do your head in with the manipulation and you will never be told the truth of what he’s doing.
Keep strong.