Well the way I looked at it with my husband when he went to stay with family was, if he is an addict “which he was” it wouldn’t be long before everyone else noticed how bad he was and then would understand what I’d had to put up with. Sure enough I was right. maybe this way her mum will see how bad she is, plus she will at least be there to watch your son if she stays in bed! I’m guessing she won’t really have that much money too either. Problem is she will probably get angry at you for not budging, but if you stick to your guns it should work out best in the end.
