Reply To: Girlfriend with multiple addiction problems

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dave-mk1
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Hi.

Im so glad you’re here for me and I’m hoping one day I will be able to pass on my experiences and advice to others.

Im pretty certain that no matter how she tries to hide it her mum will eventually see for herself how she’s behaving.

We had a few days down the coast earmarked for next week but she’s now saying that she’s taking him on her own and needs the cash to pay for it on arrival.

I do not trust her one bit now, so im going to pay it over the phone so she doesn’t shove it up her nose and tries to blame me for the little man not going. If she doesn’t go then I’ll take him. Ive kidded myself so many times before that things will be better and buckled. Its actually quite liberating atm. It may seem like im playing games with her and i certainly don’t want him to suffer but im doing everything in my power to not give her any cash. Im sure she will flip but two can play that game.

As for custody I will get some legal advice on this one. I don’t want it to get to this point but she’s the only one who can help.

She had a doctors appointment yesterday about her ongoing heart problem and i asked her if she’d told the doctor about the coke to which despite me catching her completely denied she’d done it.

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