[sadmom23]

Thank you Retroheadz, some days I feel stronger and more able to tackle it, but others I can’t cope. I want to believe her when she says she wants to have a different life and I think she believes it too, she has a support worker and sees a counsellor. I’m being patient and understand the cycle of change etc but I just lose my way sometimes and find it hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I’m struggling to instil boundaries, she is 20. I am going to have to give her either an ultimatum or a timescale for change as I don’t want to cause my family and husband more distress.