Reply To: Coping alone

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retroheadz
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Morning Sadmon23, Cocaine is obviously addictive and I have good solid experience with it sadly. But, it’s not as addictive as smoking and with effort and support she can easily dismiss it. She needs to want to do it and it sounds like she just doesn’t. It’s a horribly expensive drug and very destructive so at 20yr old she is fixable though. I’m afraid you are taking all this responsibility on your own and that needs to stop. PLEASE consider changing your approach with her.???? I really wish I could be sat In front of you and share your pain. Nothing can really help when we are this dark. I wish and hope you can switch directions with her and try a different approach. Sometimes when other people see that you are acting different they tend to listen. I’m not saying that you don’t love her but be very direct with her! Take her into a new environment and give her a last options and an ultimatum. If any of the counselling and supporting groups have had no affect within 12 weeks then I’m afraid she’s not taking it in and she needs to switch gears! If you haven’t already talk to your own doctors or one that will listen and tell them everything! everything! Ask if they can help. Please stay strong. ???? your daughter will always continue to take Cocaine as long as she is given the platform to do so. Sad but true ????

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