Morning… all of your stories resonate with my life.. my hubby is amazing around the house, cooking cleaning and shopping, as I work full time, he works from home, so he gets to do things…. BUT … that’s part of his game, his manipulation… see how good I am, see how much I help you…. so because he does “ my washing” ( our washing) he appears to be fabulous and I’m being ungrateful, when I don’t tolerate his.. “ I deserve a beer after doing all that housework”… don’t fall for it, it’s part of their addictive personality.. that’s the sad thing… they are so controlling we don’t see it.
I saw a counsellor this week and I know my options, I just need to prepare myself for the on slaughter of his abuse.. ????