Morning.. not sure how old this post is, but reading both your stories has made me feel less alone.
Both of your experiences are the same as mine and I appreciate the advice of local, groups to talk to.
I need to decide what to do next and how much to tell him of my intentions. I have moved into the spare room, as I cannot allow him to think that being intimate is a possibility.. I cannot give that part of myself anymore. I plan to set this room up as mine as we journey through the war zone of separation.