Hi Sweetpea
Thanks for your response.I was thinking the same thing that it’s all part of being controlling because the one thing he doesnt and cant control is the money.all of his money goes in my bank as he doesn’t have one so I do all the finances. Do you get some kind of abuse? Last night I finally got a good night sleep since friday I’ve only had 4 hours due to his pathetic antics. Now he would have sobered up when he wakes up I’m going to be telling him what he was like again but it’s like a broken record.ive told him over and over.ive even videod him when hes drunk and he just laughs at it. To survive this relationship I need to start doing my own things on a Friday.i was even contemplating booking a hotel just so I can get s good night sleep.but then he could acuse me of cheating or something… did you have to pay for a counsellor?