[kate1]

Thank you both…..I do love my son but it’s took me a long while to understand that my helping bail him out, negotiate with companies etc has just given him more scope to get in more debt. I asked him last night how much he owes dealers he says he doesn’t know he has pushed it to the back of his mind. I told him I won’t give him petrol money for work…..he is taking me down with him…..I feel bad and guilty and tearful…..I don’t know what to do