Reply To: Girlfriend with multiple addiction problems

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dave-mk1
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Last week she went to a drug and alcohol group but refused to tell me what went on and just said it wasnt my problem! She took our son and had that few days away.

They came home to here from the break and she was expecting to move back in. Once the little one was in bed we spoke and i told her i just want to be part of the recovery process. It broke out into an arguement and today they’ve gone back to her mums. The look on his face when they walked out of the door was killing me. I dont understand why she wont open up about it! I wrote her a letter while they were away telling her how i feel. At least she couldn’t argue with a piece of paper. She rang me from her mums after reading it and said “thanks that was lovely” I told her again that i want to be part of it and keep me in the loop. She then went into one and about how nice her break was and im the one who makes her drink! Im lost now

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