[itgeek123]

Also i am Going to Al-anon Meetings, which are helping

I have also been advice to give her an ultimatum, on an other Forum Site, but not sure what to say and even do.

Ive been adviced that i should ask her how she feels about me when she’s sober as when she has had a few drinks, 1-2 bottles of Wine she tells me she loves me

I honestly believe she loves me and wants to be with me, but when she has a bad day she pushes me away and tells me she doesnt love me

i don’t know if she is taken me for ride or what