[kate1]

Your post ring so true to me….he has done the payday loans…he is up to his eyes in debt. He is with stepchange but even that doesn’t get paid. I know you are right in my heart……what do I do ….say I have had second thoughts…….but I don’t believe he will change….it will just give him the scope to continue doing it……did your son ever not pay dealers….that is a big worry they want there money by 30th…..what will happen…….I know from the past he has promised to pull it round and not managed it….not even tried really ……so maybe you are right …..and maybe I won’t do it…..I have just took out another mortgage and I shouldn’t be struggling I Amon my own but work…but he is dragging me down