[kate1]

I have been thinking about it constantly if I thought by giving him money for the rent he would turn it around I would do it, but I have heard it so many times. Maybe he needs to see the consequences of his choices. I have to keep reminding myself that it has been his choice, and he isn’t the son he was sadly. His partner, his family, his home, job, car all gone and by his decisions. I don’t know if I will be strong enough next week but I think I need to be. Like you my son owes so much money out I know I will never get any back, his stepchange doesn’t get paid more often than not I call them and pay……it’s got to stop. It hurts me but he is taking me with him