I hope he stays clean honey. 5 kids, wow, you have your hands full.
My husband also told a woman that we had split up and that he had moved out at one point. He hadnt, we hadnt. I was on holiday with the children on my own because he doesnt do holidays. It was all the coke.
There are so many common themes, and having read a few of these posts, it seems mostly men that get addicted to coke, i’d love to understand why, maybe their brains are wired differently.
I don’t think there is always a reason, although of the people I know of that have a problem with it (around him) they all have depression, i dont know which came first, the depression or the coke use, but I think its a bit of a vicious circle. My husband had a good childhood, his parents are still happily married and his siblings are not addicts of any description.
I think there needs to be more education about this awful drug. Because its a behaviour altering substance, that causes so much misery.
Sending positive thoughts to all the partners of addicts x