Thank you for you reply.
I read over your story and it sounds like we’re all on this bloody rollercoaster. Much of the things you mention are so farmiliar. I have not even mentioned half of his antics as I’m either embarrassed for him or have just blocked them out.
What I took from your story is that you need to look out for yourself. If he wants to stay in the gutter, then so be it …. but I am not going there.
At the moment he has practically alienated every member of his family – so I am really the only one left that gives a damm. Without me, he has no one.
I can see the same pattern in respect to txt messages etc … and even sleeping in the garage. Key thing is … don’t bite and just ignore. A couple of weeks ago I just switched my phone off and disappeared for 24 hours. Whilst the effects were only positive for a few days, it maybe was a jolt and a reminder that he needs me more than I need him.
Anyways, onwards and upwards. Going to speak with a counsellor and get myself in right frame of mind to deal with this crap once and for all.
Thank you so much. Sometimes it just helps to vent frustrations and get it out there xx