Thanks so much. I do always look for the signs, although he is master in deciet. This time I know he wants to change, I know it’ll be tough, from all your messages I know I’m knew to this. Still can’t see how my life has completed altered, seems so unfair that our future is now so dependant on his strength. I fully agree on dealer..but he’s conned him to believing he’s a mate, that’s our other issue, £1000s gone, literally..he’s in a money scheme just doesn’t accept he’s being conned…it’s just baby steps for now, bug fallout expected when he does work it out. Scares me so much, he was do low and vulnerable and this crept into our lives.
