Thanks so much, good advice. His meeting went well. He’s opted for individual counselling, it’ll stem back to leaving home at 8 to boarding school, then losing mum very young to dementia, all so linked. I’m continuing to keep up own interests, jobs and kids, a great distraction. He’s trying to be more honest so less eggshells but I need to research codependancy… I’ve surely been doing it too. Thanks to everyone on here for advice, support, kindness and hope. Gotta believe he can do this but ever watchful for signs x
