But some friendly advice here lol…you obviously love him and want to make it work. But you have your own life and you dont want to waste it away waiting.
Id give him a set target say if hes not sorted in at least 2 year your leaving, and stick to it.. there are woman on here who have put up with her husbands like this for 10 year and same with my gf. But we have kids together.
You have your own life aswell. But plz dont take that the wrong way.