First of all can I say how sorry I am for your loss. Now you are trying to deal with the emotional stress of knowing both your son and his partner are addicts. Your grandchildren are away from you. Do you get to see them? Remember grandparents can get advice on seeing their grandchildren. As for your son and partner please please don’t give them money and enable their habit. They have got to want to get help and treatment. They know of your loss but still they come to you. You must find the strength to say no. It’s heartbreaking but try & spend time with your friends, speak to the authorities about seeing your grandchildren and remember the lies and deceit from the lips of your own son and partner is because of their addiction. Stay strong.X
