I think I need to change my username to lostallhope. It’s been 3 months and he doesnt seem to be doing enough to show he wants to overcome this addiction. He still hasnt sought help and still going down the “I can do this myself” road. And in between having relapses and spending silly money. I think I have to let him go for all our sakes. Gutted cos I thought we had something but his reluctancy to change is what is going to end our 13 years of marriage. But I will look after my children and give them a good future, dont need his bs around us
