B8988 are you alright? Have you heard anything from him. In my experience, much as you want to treat him like he’s treating you, punish him by ignoring him, something inside us just wont allow us to do that, right?
I feel so sad reading your post about the relapse, you were only pre-empting this last week, maybe you have a sixth sense and knew it was coming before he did!
A magic wand would be great!