Your daughter is right though. Even though its hard your really need to look after your self now. You have done your best like any mother would do, and just be there for your son if he needs help.
The circle of people you choose to hang around with dont help either.
What was he like before all this? Did he have a good job and kids?
You probably wont agree with me here, but i hear it alot about people blaming dealers and that. But people dont blame asda or the corner shop selling alcohol to alcoholics or cigs to people addicted to cigs. I blame most of it on our own choices. We could of always said no the 1st time. Its not a dealer who offers it you the 1st time. Its a mate.
I dont agree with dealers ringing people up pushing it on to people just to make money, knowing there in debt and watch them get in more debt.
Going back to the police, there are that many dealers now, there is not enough police to cope with it. There are so many now.
I hope it all works out in the end for you