Hi Danman83,
It’s Huddle here, just a quick post to let you know my son didn’t show tonight for his tea as he promised. But it is his benefits pay day so clearly his dealers have enjoyed the pleasure of his company (and money) rather than him choosing to visit his Mum. But you know I’m ok. He’ll visit when he wants to and I’m sure he’ll surface again soon. I haven’t heard from his care worker either so I’m assuming he’s not been able to engage with my son to persuade him to cut back so the date can be set for his rehab. The rehab centre won’t wait forever not when there are so many other deserving souls who are willing to do what it takes to get clean. My son obviously doesn’t feel ready.
My husband has booked an overnight break at the Lakes for us both at the end of this month. A lovely caring thought and I am soo looking forward to it. I can only leave it to my son now to sort himself out and I have (finally) decided I cannot put my own life on hold while my son decides when and if to change his life for the better.