Hi Mazza,
I’m so sorry that you are going through such a hard time supporting your daughter. It’s true, sadly, that she will not access help for herself until she accepts that she needs it.Lets hope that that happens soon.
If you would like some support for yourself please contact us at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that provides support for people like going through what you are. We offer trained and experienced people that you could talk to and a signposting service so that you can find out what other support is available in your area.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck to you.