Hiya michelle. The problem is with coke is that you can be going pubs having it, house partys for months or years. Then you stop going out, but by then your addicted. Then thats why you have it in the house. If u have had it for 6 months even if its once a month. Your addicted.
I sort of have it under control were im having once every 3 or 4 weeks. You need to do a daily plan now and put some new daily or weekly hobbies down.
If your serious about quitting. You cant have alcohol again. Simple as. Or while in the house. If your not too bothered using when on a night out.
I also listen to cocaine recovery stories on podcast. They help alot. Ive took up reading, and i go to the gym more.
Also watch louise clarke on you tube her videos on crack cocaine part 123. I cant recomend her enough. Shes an expert on this and will help you to quit. I bought her book as well which is great.
Pocket rehab is a good app aswell.
Even though we are not using everyday. Or selling or robbing people for drugs:we are addicts.
Does your bf want to stop?