[gabbyf]

I thought the same but they don’t handle addiction well and I see more and more how much they enable so I guess we can all judge each other. I just have to move on and ignore them.

I guess I didn’t appreciate the communication. I’m glad he did. I think what you did was lovely and it’s a shame it didn’t work out. Give him a bit of space and time maybe? If he keeps pushing you away then ask him whether he wants you in his life or not and if not then he should be honest and not contact you. It would be painful but at least you’d know.