Your ex still may have that same moment – he described it as a eureka moment where he realised he needed to change his life before it was too late. There is still time and I hope that happens soon for you.
Yes I plan to leave him be now until he starts loving himself. I am not going to lie the only way I think I can get through this is with a hope he comes back to me when he’s better. I’m going to miss him so much. I genuinely can’t see myself with anyone else and I’m 33. I wanted children and to marry that man and I’ve never felt like that before.
You are right and I agree I can’t hang on to his every word and in time I think that feeling with lessen but right now I can’t bear to think of not having a life without him so for the time being I’m getting by with thinking it’s short term xx