Yeah that’s the gist of it I think they do it at night when everybody sleeping because then they don’t have to feel guilty for doing it used to be where he didn’t care when he did it he would ignore his daughter when she came over when she was like 14 it’s been 2 hours in our bathroom where no one could use the bathroom because he was too busy getting high to wear now she rarely even comes over because she just doesn’t want to be here and now he doesn’t in our basement I don’t think there’s ever been a house that we’ve moved into each year that he hasn’t done something and he’s constantly said oh things are going to be different it’s going to be this it’s going to be that part of me wants to believe in the other part of me goes yeah freaking right like why should I and then he gets mad because he read this and it shows that I’m at my breaking point and he goes well can feel that way just get the hell out I’ll find someone who can meet money and then he gets mad because I pack up my s*** and I threaten to leave if she’s getting too much
