The problem is they are strangers they’ve done it for so long that they don’t know how to function in normal society they feel awkward or they feel like they need to have this to be able to socially interact with someone it’s basically their new drive and desire and they’re only way that they feel like they can be out in public and be normal and funny and have any type of relationship with other people and it is it’s basically like a dr. Jekyll and mr. Hyde scenario with them and then they don’t consider the feelings that they’re affecting on family members and spouses and when they do try to say something they get mad because they’re being faced with the truth and then they take it out on the family member saying if they don’t like it get out if they can’t handle it then leave and then they get mad because a person’s like we’ll find screw it
